You’ll hear as many opinions about adult internet dating as there are people doing it. Anything from “I met my wife, or husband there”, to it’s the devils playground. It reminds me of that old 60’s song, you can get anything you want, “at Alice’s restaurant.”
Internet dating services provide a social venue where a person has the opportunity to meet scores of other people looking for companionship. Some services have even blatantly reduced the experience to, men want beautiful women for sex, and women want men for money. There are many services serving every adult internet dating market niche. I’ll leave that to your imagination. And believe me they are out there and finding them is easy. There are even free dating sites and those that I’ve found that are as much as $60.00 per month. Ouch! And then have to pay for the date!
In my 2 years doing adult internet dating. I must admit I’ve had a ball. But I have had some interesting experiences as well. Enough to teach me that there are some people who are made to be single. And they should stay that way. Period. But also enough for me to learn that there are hundreds of thousands of people on adult internet dating services looking to find companionship either on a casual or serious basis. And although I would bet that there are many more women looking for a serious relationship than men. There are men and women adult internet dating just to have a “good time.” Now there are some, what I would call real niche adult internet dating sites that cater more to Christian people and I expect others as well.
In as far as my experiences I have made the following observations, purely my opinions;
1. “Flirts”, the little “hello” messages sent by people who are not paying members or not able to put a couple of sentences together. Normally wear pretty thin after awhile. A personal brief introduction email to say hello goes over a lot better.
Internet dating services provide a social venue where a person has the opportunity to meet scores of other people looking for companionship. Some services have even blatantly reduced the experience to, men want beautiful women for sex, and women want men for money. There are many services serving every adult internet dating market niche. I’ll leave that to your imagination. And believe me they are out there and finding them is easy. There are even free dating sites and those that I’ve found that are as much as $60.00 per month. Ouch! And then have to pay for the date!
In my 2 years doing adult internet dating. I must admit I’ve had a ball. But I have had some interesting experiences as well. Enough to teach me that there are some people who are made to be single. And they should stay that way. Period. But also enough for me to learn that there are hundreds of thousands of people on adult internet dating services looking to find companionship either on a casual or serious basis. And although I would bet that there are many more women looking for a serious relationship than men. There are men and women adult internet dating just to have a “good time.” Now there are some, what I would call real niche adult internet dating sites that cater more to Christian people and I expect others as well.
In as far as my experiences I have made the following observations, purely my opinions;
1. “Flirts”, the little “hello” messages sent by people who are not paying members or not able to put a couple of sentences together. Normally wear pretty thin after awhile. A personal brief introduction email to say hello goes over a lot better.
Internet Dating - Great If You Can Handle It!
8. Adult internet dating sites will and do ban you for abuse. You can also block a user from contacting you on the site.
9. Use caution when giving out your phone number. It probably would be best to use your cell phone at first and also be on a first name basis until you feel comfortable.
10. When you meet, have a copy of the picture of the person with you. You just never know.
11. Meet in a public place. Save the romantic locations for the romantic dates if they should arise.
12. Oh I almost forgot there is a very kinky side to a lot of folks. So don’t be surprised if you get asked if you have a webcam. Just being real with you.
All in all I have had a blast adult internet dating. I do it now, just to meet people and chat. I think adult internet dating is the fastest way to meet people whether you become friends or more, or not. From my experience I would normally meet women that were too far away. Those in my city that I met on line did not work out. And its amazing how small the world is, and who is looking. For example I’ve met 5 women who live within 10 minute walk to my house. Scary thought. Even I was smart enough to leave them alone. And then there was the time I was contacted by a woman in Texas who it turns out was an ex-wife of the then pastor of my church. Again another story.
Well folks adult internet dating can be an opportunity to meet a large number of people in a short period of time. Just be sure of what you are looking for in a person or the type of relationship. If you don’t, you will learn quickly on the internet. And most importantly I have met some very sincere and good women who have become wonderful friends.
9. Use caution when giving out your phone number. It probably would be best to use your cell phone at first and also be on a first name basis until you feel comfortable.
10. When you meet, have a copy of the picture of the person with you. You just never know.
11. Meet in a public place. Save the romantic locations for the romantic dates if they should arise.
12. Oh I almost forgot there is a very kinky side to a lot of folks. So don’t be surprised if you get asked if you have a webcam. Just being real with you.
All in all I have had a blast adult internet dating. I do it now, just to meet people and chat. I think adult internet dating is the fastest way to meet people whether you become friends or more, or not. From my experience I would normally meet women that were too far away. Those in my city that I met on line did not work out. And its amazing how small the world is, and who is looking. For example I’ve met 5 women who live within 10 minute walk to my house. Scary thought. Even I was smart enough to leave them alone. And then there was the time I was contacted by a woman in Texas who it turns out was an ex-wife of the then pastor of my church. Again another story.
Well folks adult internet dating can be an opportunity to meet a large number of people in a short period of time. Just be sure of what you are looking for in a person or the type of relationship. If you don’t, you will learn quickly on the internet. And most importantly I have met some very sincere and good women who have become wonderful friends.
2. “Digital Photos Rule” 15 times more likely to spark an interest from someone if you have RECENT (18 months) pictures online. I once met a person whose picture was 20 years old. By the way it’s still out there and so is she. But That’s another story. And very importantly do not put every picture you own in your album. In my opinion it seems to indicate that the person may be stuck on themselves, or too hung up on physical features only.
3. Your primary photograph nor you subsequent photographs should be of you being embraced by a member of the opposite sex. Not a good idea. No matter yor relationship. A definite "skip over".
4. Your profiles should be check for grammar and spelling. I cant tell how many times I’ve noticed profiles where the person did not know the difference between “woman” and “women”. i.e. I am a strong “women”. Additionally put some thought into your profiles.
5. At first interest you will do a lot of email trading if you have not felt comfortable enough exchange a minimum of off-site email addresses or perhaps phone numbers. There is a reason. 9 times out of 10, its because of competition. The person is talking to at least 3 perhaps as many more people at the same time. So you are not important at the moment.
6. People who do not post digital photographs have something to hide. Although they will claim, in a minute that they just do not want to get their face plastered all over the internet. That’s mostly not true. It means they have something to hide. Either they are married, involved or grossly lied about their weight or other physical attributes. Oh by the way. When people say “a few extra pounds”, again a lie. I know because I use that one myself and probably always will.
7. When you take a digital photograph make it about “you”. Not what you own. No need to show off your expensive vehicle in front of your big house. Nor you be dressed like you are ready to hop in the sack. First question I ask myself when I see a woman in lingerie is; Who took the picture? And do you show your stuff to everyone? Remember people will approach you based on what you’re selling. Additionally, vulgar language or showing body parts are inappropriate, although there is somebody for everybody I guess.
3. Your primary photograph nor you subsequent photographs should be of you being embraced by a member of the opposite sex. Not a good idea. No matter yor relationship. A definite "skip over".
4. Your profiles should be check for grammar and spelling. I cant tell how many times I’ve noticed profiles where the person did not know the difference between “woman” and “women”. i.e. I am a strong “women”. Additionally put some thought into your profiles.
5. At first interest you will do a lot of email trading if you have not felt comfortable enough exchange a minimum of off-site email addresses or perhaps phone numbers. There is a reason. 9 times out of 10, its because of competition. The person is talking to at least 3 perhaps as many more people at the same time. So you are not important at the moment.
6. People who do not post digital photographs have something to hide. Although they will claim, in a minute that they just do not want to get their face plastered all over the internet. That’s mostly not true. It means they have something to hide. Either they are married, involved or grossly lied about their weight or other physical attributes. Oh by the way. When people say “a few extra pounds”, again a lie. I know because I use that one myself and probably always will.
7. When you take a digital photograph make it about “you”. Not what you own. No need to show off your expensive vehicle in front of your big house. Nor you be dressed like you are ready to hop in the sack. First question I ask myself when I see a woman in lingerie is; Who took the picture? And do you show your stuff to everyone? Remember people will approach you based on what you’re selling. Additionally, vulgar language or showing body parts are inappropriate, although there is somebody for everybody I guess.
